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Posted: 05.01.2002 They say that breakin' up is hard to do
Looks like we've got ourselves quite the little "kick your sorry butt to the curb" CD going on... You might want to file this post away for future reference, as I'll be expanding the list as it grows. That way should you, or someone close to you, need a little pick-me-up -- you'll have tons of songs already gathered to download the night away, so you can crank up the "break up" songs whilst force-feeding ice cream and tequila!
Now's your chance to add yours to the pile...keep 'em comin'! OOOOH! I thought of another one: "Hold on" by Sarah McLachlan off of the Fumbling Towards Ecstacy CD. ¤ ¤ credit: Susan | 05.01.02 at 03:42 AM | link--this ¤ ¤Oooh, that is a good one! ¤ ¤ credit: robyn | 05.01.02 at 03:49 AM | link--this ¤ ¤Enough of this mushy stuff, this is what needs to be on there: How about the Bare Naked Ladies' song "Didn't mean to break your heart"? ¤ ¤ credit: Mike McBride | 05.01.02 at 10:12 AM | link--this ¤ ¤ok, this is going to sound SO LAME so forgive me before you read further...but I thought I'd add Mariah Carey's "If It's Over" since I saw her sing it today on an old SNL show. P.S. Mariah Carey disgusts me so why I like that song evades me... ¤ ¤ credit: Queen | 05.01.02 at 02:02 PM | link--this ¤ ¤Hag - Breeders I am frightened that hubby and I posted the same breakup song. ¤ ¤ credit: Angela | 05.01.02 at 03:07 PM | link--this ¤ ¤Susan, I love that song! That has definetly been played for most break ups. Thought of another one; Question *raises hand* Would "Say Goodbye" by Dave Matthews Band Count? ¤ ¤ credit: John | 05.01.02 at 09:55 PM | link--this ¤ ¤obviously -- breakup song - greg kihn band (my daughter says i'm stuck in the 80's) ¤ ¤ credit: kd | 05.02.02 at 03:48 AM | link--this ¤ ¤Is the rule of a breakup CD that all of the songs have to be depressing? What about the periods of anger or getting over the person? These Boots Were Made for Walking - Nancy Sinatra maybe i am a little more "hateful" during a bad breakup: "used to love her" - guns 'n rose ¤ ¤ credit: J2 | 05.02.02 at 01:11 PM | link--this ¤ ¤ I have two that are on the sad side: Every Little Thing by Raul Malo and Not Pretty Enough by Kasey Chambers. ¤ ¤ credit: geekgrrl | 05.02.02 at 04:31 PM | link--this ¤ ¤You can't have a break up cd without Ani DiFranco's "Untouchable Face" on it. I'm going to paste the lyrics here.... think i'm going for a walk now
Definitely Tori Amos' "Putting the Damage On" and/or "Northern Lad." No. I'm insane. Scratch that. She's got a lot of really good ones (Boys for Pele is one huge breakup album) but... "China." Duh. Man. China all the way to New York Sometimes I think you want me to touch you
Sometimes I think you want me to touch you China all the way to New York
Oh. And. D'oh. The Mighty Mighty Bosstones: "Pictures to Prove It." ¤ ¤ credit: VASpider | 05.03.02 at 01:28 PM | link--this ¤ ¤breakup song to shove you even deeper in the dumps - "pictures of you" - the cure. ¤ ¤ credit: J2 | 05.03.02 at 06:35 PM | link--this ¤ ¤Pretty impressive list. Since you are the queen of music could you suggest some very sappy, make-grandma-cry background music for a video I'm making from pictures of my son from day 1 to the 5 year old birthday party? I came up with "what a wonderful world" but that is it...you got ideas??? ¤ ¤ credit: JE | 05.09.02 at 09:18 PM | link--this ¤ ¤One by U2 Both have a place on my own compilation cd. Or heck, just go look at my own 10 year anniversary blog of *sigh* my soul mate. Wherever he is... ¤ ¤ credit: jana | 05.20.02 at 12:29 PM | link--this ¤ ¤i'll add: Go West - King of Wishful Thinking AFI - Cruise Control Motley Crue - Don't Go Away Mad does this give me the record for lastest comment from the original post date? ¤ ¤ credit: mikey | 06.15.02 at 01:34 AM | link--this ¤ ¤I'm going through a break up and about the only song I can stand is "Pushing Me Away" by Linkin Park..... "I've lied, to you Everything falls apart, What do you think???? I'm not really sure why.. but for some sick, sad reason, the song "I Ran" by Flock of Seagulls gets me through my break ups.. Think what you may.. ¤ ¤ credit: Katie | 08.25.02 at 12:32 AM | link--this ¤ ¤Just started making a breakup CD for a good friend of mine (his ex is a royal bitch and he's better off she's gone). Am loving "She Hates Me" by Puddle of Mudd. She fucking hates me.... Doesn't get any clearer than that, man. ¤ ¤ credit: reagan | 10.07.02 at 12:00 PM | link--this ¤ ¤i want the last word. so, more break-up songs, huh. how about: ok, i'm reachin here. i told ya, i want the last word. ¤ ¤ credit: mikey | 10.07.02 at 04:37 PM | link--this ¤ ¤I Will Survive by Gloria Gaynor is not about a failed relationship. its about breast cancer. ¤ ¤ credit: Ruthie | 10.07.02 at 11:28 PM | link--this ¤ ¤Well, this might reach a little deep for ordinary breakups, but after four years with him it works for me: A Perfect Circle- "The Hollow" (Mer de Noms) ¤ ¤ credit: Nora | 10.30.02 at 04:39 PM | link--this ¤ ¤i think that most tragic break up song is "You were mine," by the Dixie Chicks. it is so sad. ^_^ also, "Might have been her," by switchfoot is a good break up song. it's about a guy who thought he would spend his life with one person but things change. I hope you guys look for this song because it is awesome. it is sad but the beat is really fast so it is fun to listen to, too. ¤ ¤ credit: Serena | 11.05.02 at 10:04 PM | link--this ¤ ¤"She hates me" - Puddle of Mudd. It's the best song for when a guy is most frustrated because we know that all girls are evil. Another good one to consider to "Pretty Girl" - Sugarcult. It just speaks volumes about relationships. ¤ ¤ credit: rhett | 11.10.02 at 11:22 PM | link--this ¤ ¤If it was possible to have an I.V. drip with a good song in the bag, i'd choose "Last Goodbye" by Jeff Buckley. Now, run and go download this, or even better, support his legacy and buy the freakin album. ¤ ¤ credit: Tabatha | 11.18.02 at 12:01 PM | link--this ¤ ¤what are the words to she fucking hates me, is it living in a womans life or one big lie ¤ ¤ credit: angie | 11.21.02 at 06:55 PM | link--this ¤ ¤Korn - thoughtlesnes Torn- Ann Previn, as heard on Howard Stern (from Ednaswap) Foolish Games- Jewel Don't Speak- No Doubt Open Arms- Journey You Are Always on my mind - Willie Nelson I had to add one "Don't Break My Heart" by UB40. Here's a new one for this list -- "It's Over" by UB40. ¤ ¤ credit: robyn | 12.31.02 at 05:38 AM | link--this ¤ ¤what about something a little heavier...used to know her by veruca salt. ¤ ¤ credit: monica | 01.26.03 at 10:59 AM | link--this ¤ ¤ohhhhh!!! i forgot all about veruca salt. you have to listen to break up song. :) ¤ ¤ credit: jayme | 01.26.03 at 11:02 AM | link--this ¤ ¤If You want punk rock there's always there's the break up song by american hifi. I like Cake's version of I will Survive. I love techno music so jam your sorrows out to some Daniel Beddfield's I Gotta Get Through This!!!!! If you like country try Leann Rimes' Life Goes On. Rock out to some Marvelous 3 with their some entitled Get Over.And then there's No Doubt's Ex Girlfriend. Then after you're done, go out and rock the town and catch the eyes of as many guys (or girls for the boys) as possible and revel in the fact that you're being envied and adored by all!!!!! :) ¤ ¤ credit: CiCi | 02.27.03 at 05:10 PM | link--this ¤ ¤K, I've never been here b4, but I've been looking for some break-up songs, and i would just like to praise whoever recommended Tori Amos. Yeah, I'm a huge Ears-With-Feet (aka Tori Fan) and I myself have been playing Putting the Damage On for ohhh, let's see, about two weeks straight. Yeah, Break-ups suck. But Tori helps me thorugh it, and anyone want a great, "get-back-on-your-feet-and-be-stronger-than-that" song, Tori's got a ton, HOw about, Take to the Sky and Spark. . . Yes, Boys for Pele has been my favorite lately, as I just got through a break-up, but here's some other good songs: Tori Amos: 1000 oceans, Cool on Your Island, Cooling Natalie Imbruglia: Torn Faith Hill: Cry And i can't believe no one's mentioned DASHBOARD CONFESSIONAL!!! Try the WHOLE "places you have come to fear the most" albumn, plus the Sharp hint of new tears, for you to notice, and remember to breathe yep, music rocks, break-ups suck Bri ¤ ¤ credit: Bri | 03.11.03 at 06:59 PM | link--this ¤ ¤Breakdown -Mariah Carey feat. Bone Thugs. I stumbled upon this site thorugh a yahoo search. Nice list, one of my fav. break-up songs is "Freebird" by Lynard Skynard.....Just thought you might want to include it. ¤ ¤ credit: Aradia | 03.27.03 at 10:35 AM | link--this ¤ ¤Okay... I think the best song for a break-up is George Micheal's "Waiting for that day"!!! Oh boy oh boy..I have my own "break up cds" and all.. "Never" or "Angel" by Amanda Perez are very sad songs that are good examples of real break-up situations. I wish that I could turn back the hands of time Here is a verse from "Angel": These songs are really worth listening to. "Sad Songs and Waltzes" - Cake my two favorites: Hey! I'm trying to get over a break-up right now. It seems like every song on the radio is made just for me to cry over. I came across your website while doing a google search for "songs to survive a breakup". A lot of these songs are helpful! I need more songs like "I will survive". Songs that will help make me strong. Does anyone have any suggestions?! Thanks all! Try "Both Hands" by Ani Difranco. It is about realizing you have to move on when you tried just about everything to make a realationship work. It is a beautiful song ¤ ¤ credit: Kay | 04.24.03 at 12:55 AM | link--this ¤ ¤"You Suck" by The Murmurs is great. Another that's more bittersweet than "kiss my ass" is "You Can Sleep While I Drive" by Melissa Etheridge. ¤ ¤ credit: heather | 04.24.03 at 11:33 AM | link--this ¤ ¤I hate everything about you-Ugly Kid Joe {I think} New Blue Champion by Everclear (off the Slow Motion Daydream CD) - This song fits my last girlfriend perfectly - too bad I didn't hear the song until after we broke up ;) I don't want to hear you say you're sorry I can see the light above me I don't want to hear about your damage I can see the light above me I don't want to hear you say you're sorry Showing my age here: (it's my birthday by the way :) ) "Kiss and Say Goodbye" by The Manhattans Path of Thorns - Sarah McLachlan Well, Robyn the first time I heard this song years ago I thought it was definitely one of the ultimate break up songs: Type O Negative - Unsuccessfully Coping With The Natural Beauty of Infidelity Lyrics here for you to check out for yourself. ¤ ¤ credit: Michael Deibler | 04.24.03 at 02:58 PM | link--this ¤ ¤Break up songs?! Been there, am there again, will be there in the future, till i have no heart left, Here you go, enjoy...: Weird Al Yankovic, "One More Minute" "I'd rather dive into a swimming pool filled with double-edge razor blades. Then spend, one more minute, with you" ¤ ¤ credit: Z. Hendirez | 04.25.03 at 07:52 PM | link--this ¤ ¤Since I am a Crosby, Stills and Whatshisface fan, I will add "49 Bye-Byes". ¤ ¤ credit: JonathanSmith | 04.26.03 at 09:53 AM | link--this ¤ ¤Just visiting from a link, but had to add my favourite break up song. You're History by Shakespeare's Sister. Well you made your bed You should see me when you're not around You're history - like a beat up car - You should see me from your ivory tower You're history - like ancient Rome - So get on your bike and take a hike right out of here ! You're history - you're history - No good for me - no good for me - You're history - like a worn-out shoe - You're history - like a beat up car - Some fantastic 80's tunes in the mix, but that's when I was in need of 'em: "The Break-Up Song" by the Greg Kihn Band I found this link while looking for a song on another entry -- BreakUpSongs.com. ¤ ¤ credit: robyn | 05.07.03 at 01:38 AM | link--this ¤ ¤I just found out my boyfriend of four months has had a girlfriend for FOUR YEARS. We BOTH dumped him and now I'm making us each a cd...I need some good bitter angry girl songs-- any suggestions? ¤ ¤ credit: Chels | 05.09.03 at 03:00 PM | link--this ¤ ¤we're living in a repetition, now i cannot speak, choreographed and lack of passion, now i cannot speak, now i cannot speak, -green day "redundant" ¤ ¤ credit: nicky | 06.15.03 at 10:32 PM | link--this ¤ ¤*smiles* From My "Breaking Up" playlist which I am currently expanding: My favourite break up song of all time is Good bye to you - by Scandal ¤ ¤ credit: Cheryl | 06.26.03 at 09:53 AM | link--this ¤ ¤I am going through a rough break up. Here are some songs that have helped alot! Ani Difranco...Heartbreak even There were some pretty awesome suggestions here...I found this after searching for "breakup songs". I think about the only thing I have to add to the ever growing list right now is: Try - Blue Rodeo. Give it a listen, it's my favorite. ¤ ¤ credit: Amber | 07.07.03 at 02:00 PM | link--this ¤ ¤I thought of another one...don't know how I could have forgotten it! I Can't Make You Love Me by Bonnie Raitt...wow...that song pulls at my heart every time. It is pretty sad though, and more about wallowing in melancholy than self-righteous-pull-yourself-up stuff... Amber ¤ ¤ credit: Amber | 07.08.03 at 12:20 PM | link--this ¤ ¤Oh my God!!! This place ROCKS! I'm makin' a CD for my sister in law!!! Stronger – Britney Spears i am breaking up with the father of my 2 year old, these songs are awesome they have definitely helped! i really really like think twice by celine dion, im not a big celine fan but i love that one and my absolute FAVORITE is shut up and drive by shely wright: shut up and drive, you don't know what your talkin about (chorus) turn the radio on, to drown out the sound of goodbye, (chorus) shut up and drive, don't look in the mirror, Nothing beats 'Hope it felt good' by Nikka Costa. Amazing.. ¤ ¤ credit: annastazia | 07.16.03 at 12:59 PM | link--this ¤ ¤A great song for those still going through the sad stage is "One Fine Day" by Sarah McClachlan. Be careful though, it will make you sad! ¤ ¤ credit: Brandi | 07.22.03 at 01:28 AM | link--this ¤ ¤"Don't Wanna Try No More" - Frankie J. "Stay Gone" - Jimmy Wayne "Three Mississippi" - Terri Clark "Cry" - Faith Hill Ok, 3 out of 4 may be country songs but just listen to them. They really hit the spot and it's true that country really does speak the truth with a good beat included. Later. ¤ ¤ credit: Angie | 07.24.03 at 08:05 PM | link--this ¤ ¤Going through a bad break up and still in the sad stage. A few I didn't see on here were: Hole in my Sole - Aerosmith Forgot one more - Sometimes love ain't enough Patti Smyth and Don henley ¤ ¤ credit: brookey | 07.30.03 at 07:00 PM | link--this ¤ ¤Two important addtions: 1. "Cup of Coffee" - Garbage Love, Ms Javaviolet ¤ ¤ credit: java | 07.31.03 at 07:44 PM | link--this ¤ ¤A breakup album is never complete without "Song for the Dumped" by Ben Folds Five. Also "Jerk" by Kim Stockwood, "Somebody Kill Me" by Adam Sandler and "I hate Everything about you" by 3 Days Grace ¤ ¤ credit: David | 08.05.03 at 11:52 PM | link--this ¤ ¤this one is a little hard, but it works for me... Do You Call My Name by RA, and Through With You by Maroon5. Another one that is good for a laugh is Wish Me Well by Bouncing Souls ¤ ¤ credit: csunger | 08.08.03 at 04:32 PM | link--this ¤ ¤-Won't Be Long ¤ ¤ credit: gabby | 08.14.03 at 04:42 PM | link--this ¤ ¤I was looking through here for break up songs to make me feel better about my break and their weren't that many empowering ones. I thought I'd add this empowering break up song. I know she's just a kid but I really like this song, it makes me happier ~So yesterday by Hillary Duff~ Here are some of the lyrics- Laugh it off omg! this is GREAT! just surfed thru on a google search for break-up songs. none to add-all mine were already listed; but i got plenty more to add to my cds! thanx! ¤ ¤ credit: veevee | 08.30.03 at 07:21 PM | link--this ¤ ¤"Untouchable Face (fuck you)"-Ani DiFranco is a personal favorite of mine. I've got some more. Okay, he's a few: I forgot "My Immortal" by Evanescence ¤ ¤ credit: Starla | 09.10.03 at 08:24 AM | link--this ¤ ¤Dashboard Confessional - Standard Lines because i have an AIM conversation that sounds eerily similar to the beginning of this song: Which of the bold faced lies will we use? But your taste still lingers on my lips like I just placed them upon yours So, which of the standard lines will we use? But your taste still lingers on my lips like I just placed them upon yours It will do, i hope it will do "Dumb Girls" - Lucy Woodward I never believed it could happen to me I miss you so much I never believed it could happen to me I thought I was strong (I thought I was strong) I can't believe that it happened to me (only shit like this would happen to me) I guess I'm just a dumb, dumb, dumb, dumb girl
I can see the first leaf falling I'm a big big girl I'm a big big girl I have your arms around me ooooh like fire I'm a big big girl I'm a big big girl I recently found out my x-b/f was playin me for some internet girls. how lame. I looked through his email account (yup cuz i knew he was up to something). he used to IM girls right in front of my face and i didnt even know. how dumb was I. all he wanted only one thing. sex.. and that was it. he said to me it's not like u gave it up much anyway. what a typical asshole. all guys suck. ¤ ¤ credit: Lucy | 09.24.03 at 03:45 PM | link--this ¤ ¤here are some songs that usually help me with breakups: lonliness knows me by name - westlife Same Old Lang Syne “We drank a toast to innocence The beer was empty and our tongues were tired Were You Born To Be An Asshole? Well I was drivin' down I-95 the other night. Were you born an asshole? Yes you're an A S S H O L E... You were an asshole yesterday. And all your friends are assholes Were you born an asshole? well, i have just broken up with my b/f, he couldn't handle the distance anymore. He lived in New York and i in england. It was goign to be 6 years before we could be together again....i'm looking for songs that deal with the "it was just the wrong time, wrong place break ups" "Come around" by Rhett Miller is good but incredibly depressing. "Doing Just Fine" by Boyz II Men is good and somewhat of an empowering one. ¤ ¤ credit: Lucas | 10.07.03 at 02:51 AM | link--this ¤ ¤how has anyone forgotten at this moment by billy vera and the beaters? the one made popular in the 80's by that show m j foxx was on? you know.... what did you think OMG- almost every song on Avril Lavignes CD Let Go ALLLLLL GREAT BREAK UP SONGS The Thorns- i can't remember- great song!!! ¤ ¤ credit: avril sux | 11.10.03 at 05:05 PM | link--this ¤ ¤All GREAT break up songs!!! Most of them I already have, but here's a few to add to ur list. I'll write the lyrics of the next one, because no one has ever heard of it. It's called, I scream your name, by Mindy McCready. So tired of walking 'round, dragging this ghost. Chorus: Anger so burried deep it feels you up inside, (Chorus) I fall down to my knees, and my fists hit the ground. (Chorus) "most of the time" bob dylan: (some of the lyrics) Most of the time Most of the time Hm....I'm going through a break up right now. I have a few good songs... 1: Deep Blue Something - Breakfast At Tiffany's I can't think of anymore right now, but I have some more somewhere...oh well. ¤ ¤ credit: Mica | 11.22.03 at 01:08 AM | link--this ¤ ¤Well my husband of 15 years just told me he is done with our marriage, so here are some of my songs: Someday - Nickelback yea, I just broke up with my boyfriend and I think that the saddest songs are Dreaming of you by selena and Everytime by britney spears.... saddest songs... ¤ ¤ credit: Mercedes | 12.02.03 at 10:11 PM | link--this ¤ ¤Here's my ever expanding list: I could probably go on forever, so i'll stop. Falling in Love- Lisa Loeb Yeah, i know this list is random, but hell, the songs are working for me at the moment, figure i'd share. The hardest part about the breakup is the manufactured drama about how great it could have be if only the relationship continued... just a bit longer. Well, it ended and that elusive magic hidden for some reason isn’t likely to ever arrive even if things continued. After all the breakups through the years I definitely learned that not only will the pain pass but I’ll be in a better place. Nevertheless, one of the most amazing lyrics that cuts straight to the heart of all the pain belongs to Pearl Jam, "Black": I know someday you'll have a beautiful life, Interesting stuff.... RFH in CT Avant - Seperated How about Stupid Kid by Alkaline Trio... "Remember when I said I love you, well I take it back, I was justa stupid kid back then. I take back every word that I said." ¤ ¤ credit: Meg | 12.27.03 at 11:30 PM | link--this ¤ ¤mr. mister - broken wings
"Hopelessly Devoted to You" - Grease (I like the punk version by Less Than Jake better) i found your site and i am looking for a song and hoped that you guys could help. I dont no the artist/title just a word or 2. It is in the 80's-90's slow jam- it is one of these how about Don't Speak by No Doubt? You and me I really feel It looks as though you're letting go Don't speak Our memories As we die, both you and i It's all ending ...seems more of a "oh damn the relationship is in trouble" song to me but it works for some. ¤ ¤ credit: Billy's Princess | 01.11.04 at 10:47 PM | link--this ¤ ¤How about "Kiss the Rain" by Billie Myers, when my boyfriend and I broke up I played that song over and over again...."I will always love you" Whitney Houston......great one...so sad......also "Pretty Baby" by Vanessa Carlton....plus the video really shows revenge... ¤ ¤ credit: Matt | 01.20.04 at 11:25 PM | link--this ¤ ¤
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