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Posted: 12.14.2001
Grow up already
Just moved off the front page since it's time to move on.

Yeah, someone really gets a sense of olive branches extended and well-wishes sincerely meant when openly mocked in that person's blog just moments later, don't they? It is any blog author's right to allow whatever they choose -- and don't choose -- in their blog. Just as in life there are certain doors you close, and wouldn't open again -- and certain people you would not open your front door to if they knocked upon it -- so it is here.

Does it make me feel all warm and fuzzy that suddenly people develop a conscience and wish me well as the holidays approach? Yes. It does. I'm human. Does that erase months worth of pain that literally destroyed some of my PREGNANT friends and their close friendships with others in the process. No it does not. If you want to read about my life -- our lives -- fine. Do it. This site isn't passworded and I'm not trying to stop you. Does it mean I'm giving you free reign to fill the lives of those I care about with something I chose to walk away and move on from (although they were not given that same choice)? That would be a resounding HELL NO! Merry frickin' Christmas.







Hey sweetie - just let me know where to take that vat of chili & I am OFF! I'm sorry ...

¤ ¤ posted by Christine on December 14, 2001 at 02:24 PM ¤ ¤

I am all for growing and maturing as a person. There are several bridges I burned that I regret. There are several harsh words I've spoken in the past that I wish I could take back. With that being said, there are also several actions from others I will never forgive or forget. I meant what I said in my earlier post...real friends are ones who stick by you through the tough times too. Real friends stand up for you when you are being "called out" for something totally retarded. I completely expected the actions from a few in particular. But, the others, the ones who did nothing while I was being shunned, that's what hurt the worst. Those are the wounds I won't forget, no matter how "long ago" they were. Now, I realize how happy I finally am to have those weeds removed from my wonderful garden of friends. Robyn would go through hell and high water for me, regardless. These rightfully called "evil and hateful" couldn't stand up to a few real shitty bullies for their friend.

¤ ¤ posted by Tara on December 14, 2001 at 02:37 PM ¤ ¤

Nah, don't be sorry Christine! After ranting, I haven't given it a second thought. Mmmmmm...did someone say chili? ;-)

¤ ¤ posted by robyn on December 14, 2001 at 02:39 PM ¤ ¤

Tara, I couldn't be more honored to have you carrying my husband's child! I mean that! {{{{{ hugs }}}}}

¤ ¤ posted by robyn on December 14, 2001 at 02:41 PM ¤ ¤

I understand completely what Tara was saying, I've burned bridges and said things that were taken out of context by the other parties and I've lost friends that I thought would stand up for me. I wish that everyone could have a friends like you who will stand up when an injustice is done to a friend!

¤ ¤ posted by Sara on December 14, 2001 at 04:47 PM ¤ ¤

Yes, chili from Sonic just for you. With cheese. Because I looooooove you! :)

¤ ¤ posted by Christine on December 15, 2001 at 02:16 AM ¤ ¤




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